There's nothing more wonderful in the world then understanding who you are. Words capture imagery & in-depth meaning. thus this blog contains words and thoughts of A scorpio woman xx,
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Anonymous said: Hey, I'm a scorpio girl, 19, and I've never been in love or in a relationship whatsoever. All the guys I meet are immature and I can never click with anyone my age. My friends are all working adults and the only guys I like are my teachers because they's mature. My family says I shouldn't have high standers and stop be picky with guys my age. I was wondering if it's really me being picky or if it's a scorpio thing? Because I don't know much about zodiac signs
This might not entirely have anything to do with astrology as such but individual preference. I’m not trying to disregard your opinion or view, but even though you may not work well with some people your own age, there will be others that you can associate with. I just feel that different perspectives is important and being able to communicate with people who are the same age as you, would be beneficial to your own learning/understanding. It’s not uncommon for Scorpio women to look for love with a bit older men, you must also realize that they are at a different stage in their life, even if they’re only a few years older than you. Men in general tend to take a bit longer to mature, however there are exceptions to this, a rare few are out there. By all means, allow yourself to love someone else, when you feel you can trust them, I hope that this is when you’re ready. Don’t feel pressured or pursued to follow what other people are doing, the time will come when all the pieces fit together.
-A Scorpio Woman
Anonymous said: My problem is: I have this feeling of emptiness inside me, altough I'm really intense - what you may call a dreamer. Perhaps, it's the perception that most of the things are not so true or utopic. I have a massive desilusion with the evolution of society and my life. I can't see beauty and have pleasure anymore. I want to give up on med school bc it doesn't fulfills me but I don't know if I'm just confused. I get easily attached to people I like, at the same time. I'm lost. Enlight me, please
I feel as though we try to go through sessions or periods of our life where all we want to do, is shut ourselves from the world. During this time, we choose to turn off our emotions, or focus ourselves on something else to possibly avoid issues or problems. Escaping from reality, possibly some procrastination in some form, allows us to think about different people or scenarios, without feeling, in a sense emotionally connected. It gives you so much room for freedom, intellectually. There’s nothing wrong with forming your own opinions, about the world and society, it’s just when we try to force this onto others. We must also respect someone else’s views, even when we disagree.
From what you’ve written, what I perceive to be the reason why you don’t feel pleasure anymore, is just that somewhere in your mindset, you’ve disconnected with reality. When the pain hits you so hard that all you’re trying to focus on is your own breathing, whilst crying extensively, even if in your mind you never want to feel like this again, that purest sign of raw, emotion, allows you to recognise how real this is. Even if you can’t see it. You’ve lost the sensation and feeling life brings, good or bad, to the point of being in a state of numbness. Maybe you believe you don’t deserve happiness or frustrated at yourself because you feel you can’t achieve something. Some people assume that once you know where you want to go that’s it, case close, done. That talented people are just born a certain way, but it’s not. By pursing your own interest, putting faith in yourself, you can go anywhere and at any time you can change the direction to suit your needs. If you’re not happy, thrilled, excited or passionate about what you’re doing, you either need to alter routine or move into career area that fulfills you.
-A Scorpio Woman
Anonymous said: Hey Scorp! I was/am dating a cancer man who is a "broken bird" The first couple months we dated, we were together all of the time.. He disappeared on me for a month, left all his stuff at my house. Put me through many painful emotions... He resurfaced and said that he was scared and was falling in love with me. Now he's been showing up, but he plays push and pull games with me. I love him, but he's acting childish. I know how I am once I'm done I'm done, but I'm still hoping he'll come around
My best advice to you, is not to expect that he will change, as I can see from what you’ve written, he doesn’t even know what he really wants. Scorpio even though we’re a fixed sign, we can change very quickly, when determined and passionate to achieve what we want. We will go through whatever it takes to get to where we want to go. But this isn’t exactly the same mindset as a Cancer. Even if generally their nature it to settle down and make a homely family environment. They can be quite unaware of their actions and how they can affect others (speaking from experience). You have to be vocal about what you want, as you shouldn’t have to settle for anything less and if he can’t be that person, then you should let him go. You deserve someone who’s going to be there for you and support you, a man not a boy.
-A Scorpio Woman
Anonymous said: hello, i have stumbled upon your blog accidentally and i am very very intrigued by your interpretations and wisdom, but i question your levels of Scorpio personally, i know i have passed the spider and scorpion stage but i feel lost in the following, i show traits of many, and and lack traits as well, i feel like i must ignore some stages and cannot grow past or gain them because of this, how can you identify if you don't meet all qualities? do i pass them.. or do i strive for them?
What I’ve written I feel is only just a brief explanation of what each stage encompasses. Generally speaking, the stages from the spider to the serpent occurs during the beginning of our life to our older teenage years. We have the most transformation (or I believe to be so) during this time, as we become accustom to who we are, but this is when I feel the scorpio, is mostly lost, confused and emotional to their surroundings. Each stage represents significant points in our life, where we have to emerge and grow. It will take some people longer or shorter time during the first four stages, depending on their own life’s path. There’s a possibility, that you may be in between two main stages that you resemble most, in which case you are going through significant change during this time. If you understand where your mind and heart are, even if you show some qualities of others, you will know where you are. This isn’t a race to finish line, it’s a deep, emotional, process of ourself, where a great deal of understanding and learning takes place. You can look towards the next stage, however this isn’t really something you can provoke, it happens as we grow older, when you are truly ready.
-A Scorpio Woman
Anonymous said: On another ask you said the girl was at the lowest level, a spider. What other levels are there? - curious scorpio
I use to believe that there were only three different levels a scorpio could encompass, however I feel that, in some ways it doesn’t justify each individual mind set at the current time. We transform quite a lot of times during our life and so, when our days are limited, we won’t be afraid of death. It will only be the next phase.
It’s possible for some to have missed the first level of the spider, entering the scorpion level, while others struggled through their childhood before transforming. These are only stages and we ourselves, will continue to enter these stages at different times. We will always be known for the sign that encompasses wisdom, as we have lived many lives, during our time.
-A Scorpio Woman
Anonymous said: This girl I know is a Scorpio. So am I. Were both girls and we used to be good friends. She's the total opposite of a Scorpio though. She's a liar and tried to ruin people's friendships. She does all these terrible things.
She’s still a Scorpio, however she represents the extreme causing trouble, persona. She doesn’t trust anyone and lashes out at others, taking a great deal of insult. It’s far more difficult to actually create something, when in seconds it can be destroyed, which is the easier option for some. She copes with her emotions on a more destructive level, but maybe like us she doesn’t quite understand yet, why she is doing this. She avoids telling the truth because she doesn’t want people to become closer to her, however possibly trying to ruin other people friendships out of jealousy, seeing something other people have, yet it’s so difficult for her to attain. Right now she may represent scorpio on it’s lowest level which I believe to be a spider(most people transform from this at a very young age, but some other people may take longer, into adulthood), she will eventually transform, as a representation of life is a transition of stages and cycles.
-A Scorpio Woman
Anonymous said: I'm a scorpio and so is my girlfriend. She told me lately if I knew you were like that from the start I wouldn't even think about talking to you but you're not. I don't really want to talk to her you see? I don't see the connection anymore and I've been thinking about this for so long and it's time to let it go. I'm perfectly alone with nothing to lose anyway, I'm thinking of a way to pull myself out of all the shit I've been going through, yet I'm too weak to actually beat it.
If this is the way you feel, then you need to talk to her instead of avoiding the issue. Patiently waiting while knowing that this isn’t what you want, is one of the worst feelings, especially not being sure if you’re doing the right thing. You just need to man up and tell her, if you have nothing to lose, then this should be a motivation. I wouldn’t want to be her in the relationship not knowing and then later finding out, you felt like this longer than I thought. If she’s not the right person for you, then ultimately you’re not the right person for her anyway, it may be terrible now, but you’ll feel better. She will later on as well.
-A Scorpio Woman